Why I Chose Myself

I’m not here as an expert- I’m here as a woman who survived, healed, and chose herself.

~Elizabeth

A woman with long brown hair, wearing a light gray sweater, jeans, and brown boots, walking down a dirt path in a forest during sunset.

I’m not here as an expert with all the answers. I am here as a woman who has lived through loss, fear, and moments where I forgot who I was- and chose to find herself again.

Choosing myself was born from the quiet, painful realization that loving others should never require abandoning yourself. This space is where I share my truth, my healing, and the lessons I’m still learning- not because the journey is finished, but because it’s real.

If you’re here, chances are you’re learning how to choose yourself too. You’re not behind. You’re becoming.

Disclaimer:

The content on this website reflects my personal experiences, perspectives, and opinions. It is not intended to identify, describe, or make factual claims about any specific individual. Any similarities to real persons, living or dead, are purely coincidental. This content is shared for personal expression, healing, and creative purposes only and is not intended to defame or harm anyone.

Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

Love Doesn't Leave Room for Harm

There is no greater calling than protecting the people you love. When false accusations and misunderstandings arise, they can never outweigh the truth found in years of unconditional love, safety, and showing up every single day. This is a reflection on motherhood, healthy love, and the promise to always protect the ones who matter most.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

The Difference Between Then and Now

Healing didn't change my co-parenting situation overnight—it changed me. Looking back on one of the hardest seasons of my life, I can finally see how far I've come. This is a story about growth, choosing peace, and becoming stronger than the pain that once defined me.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

More Than A Craft Fair

Sometimes success isn't measured by numbers—it's measured by the confidence you gain. My latest craft fair reminded me why I started Earthly Enchantments and why believing in your dreams is always worth it.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

When Children Feel Like They Have to Carry the Conversation

Children should never feel responsible for carrying information, managing adult emotions, or choosing between the people they love. Healing begins when we give them permission to simply be children and create homes where they feel safe, respected, and free from the weight of adult conflicts.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

The Day I Stopped Defending Myself

For years, I believed healing meant finally being understood. I thought if I explained myself clearly enough, people would see my heart, my intentions, and my growth. What I've learned instead is that true healing isn't found in winning arguments or proving your worth—it's found in choosing peace, protecting your energy, and letting go of the need to defend yourself to those committed to misunderstanding you.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

The Dream That Rose Like Cake Batter

A bakery was once my biggest dream. As a self-taught cake artist, I poured my heart into building a business while raising a family, only to watch that dream slowly fade. This is the story of creativity, resilience, and how sometimes our dreams don't disappear—they simply change shape.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

Rising Into Leadership

A promotion years in the making. After two and a half years at the Exeter Inn, countless challenges, and some of the hardest seasons of my life, I stepped into a leadership role that means far more than a new title. This is the story of resilience, growth, and becoming the leader I once needed.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

Letters From The Ashes

Healing doesn’t always happen loudly. Sometimes it begins in quiet moments — in finally feeling seen, heard, and understood. Letters From the Ashes was created as a safe space for survivors, dreamers, mothers, rebuilders, and anyone learning how to rise again after life’s hardest seasons.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

Healing Changed Everything

Two years ago I was barely surviving. Today, I’m rebuilding a life filled with healing, creativity, peace, and hope. From becoming a manager to watching Hunter thrive and preparing to become a Gigi, this chapter feels like proof that even after the hardest seasons, beautiful things can still grow.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

When Someone Else’s Darkness Starts Dimming Your Light

Sometimes the people we love are carrying battles we cannot fix for them. Healing has taught me that compassion does not mean sacrificing my own peace. I can care deeply without losing myself in someone else’s darkness — and maybe that’s one of the hardest lessons healing asks us to learn.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

The Quiet Voice I Stopped Ignoring

For years I questioned whether I was overthinking or simply noticing what my heart wasn’t ready to accept. Healing taught me that intuition isn’t always loud — sometimes it’s the quiet voice inside us asking to finally be heard.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

Learning How To Dream Again

There was a time when the future filled me with fear instead of hope. After years of living in survival mode, I’m finally finding peace, stability, healing, and excitement for what’s ahead. From creating a permanent home to growing Earthly Enchantments and making new memories with the people I love, this season of life feels freeing in ways I never expected.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

Not Who I Was — But Who I’m Becoming

Sometimes healing doesn’t happen loudly. Sometimes it happens quietly, through rebuilding yourself piece by piece after years of survival mode. The Beauty of Becoming is a reflection on healing, motherhood, creativity, resilience, and learning to become someone you’re finally proud of.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

Rain, Resilience & Handmade Magic

Even in the pouring rain, my first craft fair at Odell Park in Franklin, New Hampshire became a moment I’ll never forget. From sharing my handmade creations through Earthly Enchantments to having Ryan by my side through it all, the day reminded me how healing, meaningful, and magical creativity truly can be.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

The Silence I Wasn’t Ready For

This week, the silence feels louder than any noise. As I miss my son in ways I can’t fully explain, I’m slowly learning how to sit with the quiet—and find pieces of myself within it.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

How I Learned To Walk Away From Negativity

I used to carry the weight of other people’s negativity like it was my responsibility. Now I see it differently—what they choose to hold onto isn’t mine to carry anymore.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

You Don’t Have To Earn Rest Anymore

When you’ve lived in survival mode for so long, slowing down can feel uncomfortable—even wrong. This is about unlearning the guilt, embracing the quiet, and realizing that rest was never something you had to earn.

Read More
Elizabeth Tubridy Elizabeth Tubridy

Don’t Take The Bait

Not every question is asked to understand you. Some are asked to pull you back into chaos. Healing is learning when to stop explaining… and start choosing silence instead.

Read More