Why I Chose Myself
I’m not here as an expert- I’m here as a woman who survived, healed, and chose herself.
~Elizabeth
I’m not here as an expert with all the answers. I am here as a woman who has lived through loss, fear, and moments where I forgot who I was- and chose to find herself again.
Choosing myself was born from the quiet, painful realization that loving others should never require abandoning yourself. This space is where I share my truth, my healing, and the lessons I’m still learning- not because the journey is finished, but because it’s real.
If you’re here, chances are you’re learning how to choose yourself too. You’re not behind. You’re becoming.
Disclaimer:
The content on this website reflects my personal experiences, perspectives, and opinions. It is not intended to identify, describe, or make factual claims about any specific individual. Any similarities to real persons, living or dead, are purely coincidental. This content is shared for personal expression, healing, and creative purposes only and is not intended to defame or harm anyone.
Love Doesn't Leave Room for Harm
There is no greater calling than protecting the people you love. When false accusations and misunderstandings arise, they can never outweigh the truth found in years of unconditional love, safety, and showing up every single day. This is a reflection on motherhood, healthy love, and the promise to always protect the ones who matter most.
The Difference Between Then and Now
Healing didn't change my co-parenting situation overnight—it changed me. Looking back on one of the hardest seasons of my life, I can finally see how far I've come. This is a story about growth, choosing peace, and becoming stronger than the pain that once defined me.
More Than A Craft Fair
Sometimes success isn't measured by numbers—it's measured by the confidence you gain. My latest craft fair reminded me why I started Earthly Enchantments and why believing in your dreams is always worth it.
When Children Feel Like They Have to Carry the Conversation
Children should never feel responsible for carrying information, managing adult emotions, or choosing between the people they love. Healing begins when we give them permission to simply be children and create homes where they feel safe, respected, and free from the weight of adult conflicts.
The Day I Stopped Defending Myself
For years, I believed healing meant finally being understood. I thought if I explained myself clearly enough, people would see my heart, my intentions, and my growth. What I've learned instead is that true healing isn't found in winning arguments or proving your worth—it's found in choosing peace, protecting your energy, and letting go of the need to defend yourself to those committed to misunderstanding you.
The Dream That Rose Like Cake Batter
A bakery was once my biggest dream. As a self-taught cake artist, I poured my heart into building a business while raising a family, only to watch that dream slowly fade. This is the story of creativity, resilience, and how sometimes our dreams don't disappear—they simply change shape.
Rising Into Leadership
A promotion years in the making. After two and a half years at the Exeter Inn, countless challenges, and some of the hardest seasons of my life, I stepped into a leadership role that means far more than a new title. This is the story of resilience, growth, and becoming the leader I once needed.
Letters From The Ashes
Healing doesn’t always happen loudly. Sometimes it begins in quiet moments — in finally feeling seen, heard, and understood. Letters From the Ashes was created as a safe space for survivors, dreamers, mothers, rebuilders, and anyone learning how to rise again after life’s hardest seasons.
Healing Changed Everything
Two years ago I was barely surviving. Today, I’m rebuilding a life filled with healing, creativity, peace, and hope. From becoming a manager to watching Hunter thrive and preparing to become a Gigi, this chapter feels like proof that even after the hardest seasons, beautiful things can still grow.
When Someone Else’s Darkness Starts Dimming Your Light
Sometimes the people we love are carrying battles we cannot fix for them. Healing has taught me that compassion does not mean sacrificing my own peace. I can care deeply without losing myself in someone else’s darkness — and maybe that’s one of the hardest lessons healing asks us to learn.
The Quiet Voice I Stopped Ignoring
For years I questioned whether I was overthinking or simply noticing what my heart wasn’t ready to accept. Healing taught me that intuition isn’t always loud — sometimes it’s the quiet voice inside us asking to finally be heard.
Learning How To Dream Again
There was a time when the future filled me with fear instead of hope. After years of living in survival mode, I’m finally finding peace, stability, healing, and excitement for what’s ahead. From creating a permanent home to growing Earthly Enchantments and making new memories with the people I love, this season of life feels freeing in ways I never expected.
Not Who I Was — But Who I’m Becoming
Sometimes healing doesn’t happen loudly. Sometimes it happens quietly, through rebuilding yourself piece by piece after years of survival mode. The Beauty of Becoming is a reflection on healing, motherhood, creativity, resilience, and learning to become someone you’re finally proud of.
Rain, Resilience & Handmade Magic
Even in the pouring rain, my first craft fair at Odell Park in Franklin, New Hampshire became a moment I’ll never forget. From sharing my handmade creations through Earthly Enchantments to having Ryan by my side through it all, the day reminded me how healing, meaningful, and magical creativity truly can be.
Recognizing the Pattern, Choosing Peace
Sometimes growth isn’t about saying more—it’s about recognizing the pattern and choosing not to engage in it anymore.
The Silence I Wasn’t Ready For
This week, the silence feels louder than any noise. As I miss my son in ways I can’t fully explain, I’m slowly learning how to sit with the quiet—and find pieces of myself within it.
How I Learned To Walk Away From Negativity
I used to carry the weight of other people’s negativity like it was my responsibility. Now I see it differently—what they choose to hold onto isn’t mine to carry anymore.
You Don’t Have To Earn Rest Anymore
When you’ve lived in survival mode for so long, slowing down can feel uncomfortable—even wrong. This is about unlearning the guilt, embracing the quiet, and realizing that rest was never something you had to earn.
Don’t Take The Bait
Not every question is asked to understand you. Some are asked to pull you back into chaos. Healing is learning when to stop explaining… and start choosing silence instead.
When the Story Flips: Why The Housemaid Hit Deeper Than I Expected
A movie I almost didn’t watch turned into one I won’t forget. The Housemaid challenged my first impressions, flipped the narrative, and reminded me that sometimes the woman you question… is the one who holds the truth.